Two situations.
One extended day each.

You keep waiting to feel sure. Some days you think you know what you want, and by evening you're not sure of anything. People ask how you're doing and you say fine, because the real answer takes longer than a hallway conversation. You've gotten good at holding it together in front of everyone, your kids, your friends, maybe even yourself. Somewhere underneath it, you have a sense that there's something more, something you're currently missing, and you haven't had the room to find out what it is.

This isn't couples work, and it isn't about deciding anything about your marriage today. It's a full morning set aside for you, whether you're still married and trying to understand what's true, or already on the other side of it and figuring out who you are now. Either way, the question underneath is the same, not what happened, but what comes next, for you.

We meet once, just the two of us, from 8:30 in the morning until 1:30 in the afternoon, from the comfort of your own home via HIPAA-compliant Zoom. No back-to-back clients waiting on the other side, no picking up where we left off next Tuesday. We start by getting the full picture of where you are and what actually matters most to work through today. From there, we go wherever that leads, sometimes that's grief, sometimes anger you haven't let yourself feel yet, sometimes it's reconnecting with a part of yourself the marriage quietly asked you to set aside. By the end, we bring it back to something solid, not a five-year plan, just the next honest step, and what you actually need going forward.

Before we meet, I'll ask you to sit with two questions: what does your reality look like right now, and where do you hope to arrive. There's no right way to answer either one. It just gives us a starting point, so the morning itself is time we spend moving forward, not getting oriented.